Lithosexual

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Lithosexuality is a sexual orientation referring to people who may experience sexual attraction but do not want these feelings reciprocated. A lithosexual person experiences sexual attraction to other people, regardless of gender, but do not want these feelings reciprocated because they are not comfortable with the idea of a sexual relationship, or because the idea of mutual attraction is unwanted to them. It is also possible that the sexual attraction fades as soon as they find out the other person is also sexually attracted to them. Lithosexuality is on the asexual spectrum and belongs to the lesbian and asexual communities. This means that a lithosexual person is also an asexual person. The definition of the Ancient Greek root "litho" is "stone" or "rock. Note that lithosexuality says nothing on someone's gendered preference; a lithosexual person may be attracted to the same gender, any other, or all genders; these categories are not mutually exclusive.

Lithosexual

Lithosexual also called Akoisexual is a sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum. Someone who is lithosexual may experience sexual attraction but does not want it reciprocated. The lithosexual person may be uncomfortable at the thought of someone being sexually attracted to them, or they may lose their sexual feelings if they learn it's reciprocated. As such, lithosexuals do not feel compelled to seek out a sexual relationship. Like with any sexual orientation, lithosexuals can have any romantic orientation. Lithosexual can be a sexual orientation on its own or can combined with other orientations. For example, one could be lithosexual and gay, meaning that when one does experience sexual attraction it's only towards people of the same gender. Due to a claim of appropriating lesbian culture some people have attempted to replace the term lithosexual with akoisexual. This is due to the fact that litho- means "stone". In the lesbian community a stone lesbian is a lesbian who is okay with being the giver of sex acts, but not with being the receiver of sex acts. Because of that "lithosexual" could potentially be interpreted as being related to this term. There has not been any consensus about the term, both in the asexual and lesbian community. There is no apparently evidence that the specific term "lithosexual" was ever commonly used by lesbians. Currently lithosexual and akoisexual are used interchangeably.

I want to fuck you but I need you lithosexual to want the sex for your own pleasure, lithosexual.

Official definition: A person who experiences sexual attraction but does not want it reciprocated. Kaira's understanding of that definition: Meet Bob. Bob is a lithosexual. Bob is a lithosexual because:. I feel like sexual fantasies not experimental sexual fantasies, where you are only masturbating to it, to see if it does anything for you. I mean sexual fantasies that you KNOW you enjoy.

Lith-, or Akoi- , is an a-spec orientation prefix that refers to individuals whose attraction fades when reciprocated, the Greek prefix 'lithos' meaning 'stone'. Some lith individuals don't desire their attraction to be reciprocated, while others simply don't need it to be reciprocated. Lithromantic was coined by the mods of Tumblr blog lithromantic sometime before February One mod described its coining and etymology as deriving from the concept of Stone Butch lesbians. I mean, anything close, not anything we could figure out how to twist around and make it mean what we wanted. Someone who is Stone likes to provide sexual stimulation to a partner, but does not like to receive sexual stimulation themself.

Lithosexual

The romantic equivalent is aroflux. Originally published: 1st March, Last modified: 15th January, This may manifest in a myriad of ways, for example, an aegosexual individual may fantasise about watching other individuals engage in sex, and not about in engaging in it themselves.

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Bob is sexually attracted on some level to Katy and enjoys thinking about her when he masturbates, he doesn't actually want to have sex with her though because. It's NOT ABOUT what happens during the sex, the fundamental aspect of being 'lith' is that you can't get to the point of having the sex in the first place because all interest is lost as soon as the other person shows any kind of reciprocated interest in having sex with you. To clarify, Bob having no interest in raping people in real life, isn't just because it's immoral and against the law. Split Attraction Model. Bob is a lithosexual. Do you get uncomfortable when someone you like experiences sexual attraction to you? Sally Posted December 8, First, it should be noted that it is important to ask if someone prefers being called akoisexual or lithosexual; although there is no clear consensus on this matter, it can be a deeply personal issue that you should respect. Now you're back onto enjoying it which is defeating the purpose of identifying as lithosexual. These can be used interchangeably, although we understand it may be a bit confusing. Am I lithosexual? No I think Kaira Aitken was interpreting correctly the way lithosexual is commonly defined as: As soon as the desire to connect on a sexual level is reciprocated in any way , maybe even if that's merely the women willingly having the sex, then Bob loses all interest. And that's not rape - aces can obviously consent to sex. Official definition: A person who experiences sexual attraction but does not want it reciprocated. Lithosexual can be a sexual orientation on its own or can combined with other orientations.

While part of me doesn't care what I label myself because I'm really not sharing it with anyone, the other part of me wants to find out exactly what's going on with me and find a term that can fit my identity the closest. Right now the best thing I an find is aposexual.

Again though, you can't have it both ways. Reply to this topic Start new topic. They can both be legitimately straight, even if they both consented to and even enjoyed gay sex. Prev 1 2 Next Page 1 of 2. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. The ones you have masturbated to multiple times, because you know it works for you, should be an indicator of lithosexuality. If the ace is loving the sex and orgasming from it then what you have is a perfectly normal situation where both people are wanting the sex as much as each other. Published by Theo. If someone is claiming to be lithosexual just because they can only get off on giving another person sexual pleasure without that person wanting to return the favour, then great. Yes because I clearly did not have any active desire for the sex in any way.